- Whether its finishing your personal website, your first blog, or your chores, many important things in life are easier to accomplish when you can focus totally on yourself. Thats when you can:

* STRENGTHEN YOUR FRIENDSHIP. An unattached man or woman has the time to appreciate and enjoy friends, both new and old. Make plans with friends- beaches, concerts, movies, picnics.

* FURTHER YOUR CAREER. Without a girfriend or a boyfriend, you have extra time, extra energy, and fewer personal demands. Now is the time for advancement if that's what you want.

* FIND YOUR HIDDEN TALENTS. Did you ever want to learn photography? Do it now. Did you ever dream of learning how to drive? Why not now?

* DEVELOP YOUR INTERESTS. French? Japanese? Bodybuilding? Mountain climbing? Travel? NOw is the time to try something different.

* FIND YOURSELF. Being alone means you can be utterly self involved. Whether you are searching for your inner child or the secrets of the universe, there is no one to account to but you.

* LOSE YOURSELF. Take a walk along the shore, a bike ride outside the city, or go on a retreat in a mountain hideaway. It's your choice and your schedule.

* DO YOUR LIFE YOUR WAY. You can go to sleep when you want to, for as long as you want. You can eat exactly what you want, when you want, and where you want. You can go where you want, when you want, with whom you want and come back when you feel like it. YOu can spend your time the way you want to. You can also send your money on whatever you see fit. In short, you dont have to reach compromises with anyone. Make the most of it.

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2 comments
  1. Just me 2:06 PM  

    These are some great tips... travelling is one that I tend to look forward to when newly single.

  2. Wayne 1:58 PM  

    Thanks for the comment. I read your blog too, it seems we do have some in common when it comes to content.